So you think you've reached the hump. You think alright I'm getting used to this being alone business. You also think "pfft..what did I ever see in that guy?" Then in the middle of Starbucks you realize the guy in front of you is ordering the exact drink you're ex drank and he's wearing his favorite shirt and chuck taylors and you are back to square one. You're back to moping, crying, running to Borders to the self-help section or you're at the local watering hole where the bartender already knows your drink before you order it.
Ok, this happens we all have set backs and there is no reset button. You have to ride it out. The melt down, the break down, are unexpected you might be perfectly fine one day and you might find his sock the next and it might be a turn to the worse. Don't let these insignificant days take a hold of you. Remember everyone has bad days. Think of the days you wake up late because you forgot to set your alarm. You wear a shirt that has a stain on it. It rains on you and you were suppose to go on that date with that hot guy. Take those moments and remember they can always be turned into a really bad set of stand up comedy.
So if your song is playing on the radio change it. If you find an old sock THROW IT AWAY! If you can't deal with it, cry. Its just another part of the process. Oh yeah and also don't be sappy and blog, I went back and read a few posts from a kinda difficult time in my life and I guess I'm glad I wrote those then but now I'm thinking of deleting them. Do whatever makes you happy and remember this will pass, you'll be back to thinking "pfft..why was I with that guy who orders Frappuccinos? MAN UP DRINK COFFEE PUNK!"
*Please don't say this out loud! It might get you escorted out of a Starbucks*
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